Well-wisher is the person from whom we expect something good to us or someone is thinking or trying to do something good for us. In olden days where competition was less, the well-wishers were more but in this cut-throat competition, well-wishers are diminishing. Competition in jobs/business in fact in every professional line is getting tougher day by day.
Well-wishers, we all need them but the reality is we don’t want to become well-wisher for others. I still remember my childhood days when friends were actually friends, needs were limited, forget about cell phones, there were not wired phones (Landline) also, no televisions. Our source of entertainment was radio or tape recorder in the house or playground outside in the evenings. we used to visit the library and get books for knowledge, no google. Our friends were our search engines, who was sharing knowledge or finding needed knowledge for us. And we used to call them as well-wishers.
Our source of entertainment was radio or tape recorder in the house or playground outside in the evenings. we used to visit the library and get books for knowledge, no google. Our friends were our search engines, who was sharing knowledge or finding needed knowledge for us. And we used to call them as well-wishers.
But nowadays, everything is available on the internet and we don’t value for others. We do expect others to value us but the same we don’t. Nowadays people are valued by the financial status in the society. Actually, in olden times we used to take care of our self and others but nowadays, we don’t take care of our self and it’s nobody’s job or responsibility to love or take care of us. Becoming your own well-wisher is the work every one of us has to do, it just is a matter of when we decide to do it. Here, a few tips to get you started.
People nowadays, trust others more than themselves. Very few wants to come out open and have a say, you start agreeing with others, without thinking twice, assuming that the others know better than himself. I believe we all are grown ups to use our imaginations.
Trust yourself and always compare your opinions with others and come then only come to conclusion, if confused always take help of some elder, in your family or your best friend. Close your eyes and ask yourself, I am sure you will get your answer.
Always value yourself more than others, it certainly doesn’t mean that you start disrespecting others feelings but always try to balance well. If you are not agreeable to others, always try to address your concern in a constructive way, rather than surrendering yourself. Communicate well and raise your issues with others, find a solution which is beneficial to all rather than inclining on one side.
Don’t be Unrealistic
Don’t try to be unrealistic, sometimes we push ourselves and others to a dead end. We expect magic, everytime from others. We want our self to perform 100%, that too, every time. “Even a very good batsman in cricket can’t hit a century in very innings”. So always be realistic and don’t fear about failures or mistakes. It’s about being easier on yourself.
Always try to be happy, spend some time with your family daily, without watching television. Have dinner together and while having dinner, don’t watch television, believe me, you will have a golden time. There will be positive vibes in your family, they will start caring for each other. On holidays always make a habit of visiting your friends or relatives, get some gifts for them, rather than spending money on movies in multiplexes. This way other will start caring and respecting you. In family and in society you be recognized well, this will boost your confidence.